Below’s Most Uncomfortable Question Is Whether Leaving Home Makes You a Traitor

By Rachel Sikkema
Published October 15, 2026

Below poster featuring Josh Hartnett against a stormy sea and icebergs, with the title in yellow.
Josh Hartnett’s Calvin Penney fronts Below artwork featuring dark seas and looming icebergs. Image: Netflix

Leaving Snook’s Arm is a legitimate choice in Below, even when Calvin Penney experiences it as a personal betrayal. His children have lives to build. The town’s residents have futures to consider. Calvin’s love for home deserves respect, but it becomes suffocating when staying starts to look like the admission price for loving him back.

That is the uncomfortable feeling underneath the sea-monster story. You can care deeply about a place and still want a life somewhere else. Try explaining that to a parent who hears your departure as a verdict on everything they gave you.

Below puts that pressure inside a family already struggling to speak plainly. The creature makes leaving urgent. The guilt was there long before anything surfaced.

Calvin Makes Home Difficult to Disagree With

Josh Hartnett’s Calvin is fighting to preserve Snook’s Arm as a resettlement vote approaches. His attachment to the place reaches back to a childhood displacement that ended in his father’s death. For him, losing a home and losing family are tangled together.

That history makes his stubbornness understandable. Another departure carries the emotional weight of the first one. He approaches the possibility of moving with a lifetime of grief already packed into the argument.

It also makes him an exhausting person to disagree with.

How do you tell someone that the place holding their memories feels too small for your future? Every practical reason risks sounding cold. Wanting different work or more freedom can seem embarrassingly ordinary beside a parent’s enormous sadness.

This is where Calvin interests me most. His devotion has a generosity to it. He believes the town deserves a future and is willing to fight for one. But that same devotion can make other people’s futures feel like something he gets to approve.

A family can spend years navigating that kind of love. You learn which plans to soften before mentioning them. You present decisions as possibilities. You make leaving sound temporary because a definite goodbye would turn dinner into a tribunal.

Calvin gives the question of home that familiar emotional weight. The harbour belongs to a whole community. His hurt can make it feel like an extension of his own household.

The Children Who Leave Still Have to Come Back as Themselves

Mary returns to Snook’s Arm with her boyfriend after three years away. Jay arrives with the appearance of success, although his financial circumstances are shakier than they seem. Wade has remained in town and is still stuck in an immature role. Their different situations give Calvin’s children three awkward ways of belonging.

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Mary’s return carries a particular tension. Bringing a partner home means introducing someone to the version of you that your family remembers. The person you have become elsewhere has to share the room with the child everyone still recognises.

That can be affectionate. It can also be maddening.

There is an implied examination in these visits. Has leaving made you happier? Have you become too grand for the place? Do you still understand the jokes? Even a warm welcome can leave someone feeling watched for evidence of change.

Jay adds another pressure. Leaving often comes with an expectation that you will return carrying proof that it worked. Success makes the departure easier for everyone to explain.

I like the discomfort in that. A person should be allowed to leave and have an ordinary, messy life. They should be allowed to struggle without their struggle becoming an argument for why they ought to have stayed.

Home becomes a harsher place when every setback abroad gets quietly filed under “we told you so.”

Wade Exposes the Limits of Staying

Calvin, Mary, Noah and Ruth stand beside luggage on a harbour quay, with a fishing boat behind them.
Mary returns to Snook’s Arm with Noah, reuniting with Calvin and Ruth by the harbour in Below. Image: Netflix

Wade makes the loyalty question especially awkward because he has remained close. If physical presence were enough to earn someone respect, his position in the family would be secure.

Instead, his situation invites a more difficult reading. Staying can preserve the exact relationships that stop a person from growing. Familiarity gives everyone an old explanation for your behaviour. Eventually they start reaching for it before you have finished speaking.

Charlie Heaton’s Wade belongs to the place, but belonging has left him with little room to surprise anyone.

That matters because stories about threatened communities can become sentimental about the people who remain. Staying is easy to present as courage. Departure is easy to load with selfishness. Wade complicates that arrangement simply by being so frustrated within it.

A hometown can give you people who know your history and still leave you desperate for someone to see you differently.

Calvin’s children therefore put pressure on his idea of family from several directions. Distance troubles him. Closeness brings its own disappointments. The emotional problem survives either address.

For me, that is the sharpest part of this angle. You could move every Penney back into the same house and still have a family full of people who feel misunderstood.

The Buyout Turns Private Guilt Into Public Pressure

The resettlement argument enlarges the family conflict. A decision about where to live becomes a judgment about what the whole community owes its past.

There is something deeply unpleasant about asking people to prove their love for a town through the amount of difficulty they will tolerate. Attachment has real value. So does the exhaustion of trying to make a life work.

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Someone considering a buyout may be tired. They may want stability. Those desires deserve to exist in the conversation without being treated as a failure of character.

The Crockers’ concealed interest in the land makes the situation uglier. Their manipulation exploits the town’s vulnerability and compromises the promise of a straightforward choice. The eventual exposure of that scheme gives Calvin a concrete opponent for his anger.

Still, I think the family question remains harder than the villain reveal. Exposing exploitation gives people grounds to resist a particular deal. It leaves each person’s private wish to stay or go waiting for an answer.

A fair choice would give the community enough information and enough power to decide. Guilt is a poor substitute for either.

Home Has to Leave the Door Open

Mary wears a red hoodie and holds a partially eaten pastry while looking sideways in a wood-cabinet kitchen.
Ruby Stokes as Mary Penney in a kitchen scene from Below, where returning home brings family ties into focus. Image: Netflix

The sea creature supplies an immediate reason to pull together. A crisis can briefly simplify relationships because everyone has something urgent to do.

Life after the crisis asks more of them.

Calvin has to share the meaning of home with people who experience it differently. His children have to find ways of caring that feel honest. Some forms of loyalty involve returning. Others involve staying in touch while building a life beyond the harbour.

I want a family like this to reach the point where a visit can simply be a visit. No defence of the years spent away. No promise extracted over the kitchen table. Just enough ease for someone to arrive without bracing themselves.

Below makes leaving feel uncomfortable because the accusation of betrayal can hide inside genuine affection. The person asking you to stay may love you fiercely. They may also be asking you to carry more of their grief than your own life can hold.

Calvin deserves a home he can keep. His children deserve the freedom to decide where theirs will be. The real test of that family is whether he can wave them off and still make them feel welcome when they return.


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