Obsession Is a Monkey’s Paw for the Dating-App Generation

Obsession filmmaker Curry Barker poses in dark sunglasses against a warm beige backdrop.
Obsession writer-director Curry Barker poses during a portrait session. Photo: Getty Images.

Bear sits in his car staring at Nikki’s social media profile, winding himself into a private emotional crisis over a woman standing just a few taps away. He knows her. They work together. She has already asked him directly whether he likes her. Somehow, speaking one honest sentence feels harder than invoking supernatural forces.

That is the joke at the center of Obsession, and it lands because the behavior feels horribly familiar.

Curry Barker’s film dresses an old cautionary tale in the emotional habits of modern dating. The magical One Wish Willow belongs beside every cursed trinket that has ever granted exactly what its owner requested. Bear wants Nikki to love him more than anything in the world. The wish delivers. Precision turns out to be the problem.

The result feels like The Monkey’s Paw rewritten by somebody who has spent too much time watching people decode read receipts.

Bear Wants Certainty More Than Love

Michael Johnston plays Bear with the restless discomfort of a man who has rehearsed vulnerability until it has become another form of avoidance. His crush on Nikki has grown inside a sealed chamber. He studies her posts, imagines their future, practises declarations with his friend Ian, and treats every possible response as a disaster waiting to happen.

Actual Nikki barely gets a vote.

That detail gives the film its sharpest edge. Bear sees himself as shy and romantic. His actions reveal a hunger for certainty. He wants the answer before asking the question. He wants intimacy with the awkward negotiation removed. More than anything, he wants protection from hearing no.

Dating apps sell a polished version of that protection. A match appears before conversation begins. Interest arrives as a notification. Profiles turn attraction into a set of manageable signals, complete with photographs and prompts that can be studied from the safety of a sofa.

Bear takes that logic one grotesque step further. The Willow becomes the perfect matching algorithm. It guarantees compatibility by rewriting the other person.

A swipe could never compete.

The Wish Behaves Like a Broken Algorithm

The One Wish Willow has the blunt intelligence of a recommendation engine. It understands the instruction and ignores the human meaning behind it.

Bear asks for Nikki’s love to outrank everything else. Her friends become rivals. Her dignity becomes disposable. Food, sleep, personal space, and self-preservation fall away because the wish has assigned Bear the highest possible value.

The horror grows from optimisation.

Every app user knows the eerie feeling of watching a platform take one small preference and stretch it into an identity. Pause on one video and the feed decides you have found your new religion. Search for a chair and spend the next month being pursued by furniture. The machine keeps serving what engagement tells it you want, long after pleasure has curdled into irritation.

Wish Nikki works the same way. Bear expresses a desire for devotion, so the Willow keeps increasing the dosage. Her affection becomes clinginess. Clinginess becomes surveillance. Surveillance becomes violence.

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Technically, the wish succeeds.

That deadpan literalism makes the film very funny in places. Bear wanted a woman who could never reject him. Soon he is desperate for Nikki to disagree, leave the room, or show the faintest interest in somebody else. He discovers boundaries only after losing the protection they offered.

Nikki Becomes the Nightmare Version of a Perfect Match

Nikki and Bear embrace tensely in a dim, cluttered room in Obsession.
Nikki and Bear’s cursed romance turns dangerously intense in Obsession. Image: Focus Features.

Inde Navarrette has the hardest job in the film. She must make cursed Nikki frightening while preserving the sense that a real woman has been buried underneath. Her performance moves between syrupy sweetness and raw physical anguish. Sometimes the change happens inside a single look.

Her smile lingers past comfort. Her voice slips into a soft romantic register that sounds copied from somewhere. When Bear pulls away, her entire body reacts as though separation causes physical pain.

She resembles a profile built from his preferences and given flesh.

Bear’s imagined Nikki carries none of the inconvenient independence that made the real one appealing. She has endless availability and wants constant contact. She centres every emotion around him. The fantasy becomes exhausting almost immediately because desire needs distance, surprise, and the possibility of refusal.

Wish Nikki also exposes the ugliness hidden in the phrase “the perfect woman.” Perfection usually means perfect for somebody. It turns a person into a customised service with attractive packaging.

Barker pushes that idea into body horror. Nikki waits for Bear beyond the limits of ordinary endurance. She watches him sleep. Her movements become jerky and unnatural, including that skin-crawling backward walk that seems designed to lodge permanently in the viewer’s nervous system.

She has become infinitely responsive and completely unreachable.

Modern Dating Creates Its Own Folklore

Older supernatural stories warned against greed, pride, and the arrogance of bargaining with fate. Obsession understands that contemporary romance has produced its own tempting form of magic.

We can summon faces by the hundred and filter strangers by age, distance, height, habits, and whatever else a platform decides belongs in a menu. We can disappear without a farewell, return without an apology, and keep a bench of possible replacements glowing inside a phone.

All that choice creates surprisingly little courage.

Bear has direct access to Nikki and still retreats into observation. He scrolls because scrolling lets him experience desire without placing himself inside a real exchange. His feelings grow enormous in isolation. Nikki becomes part woman and part story he tells about himself.

That private storytelling drives plenty of app-era misery. A few messages can become a whole imagined relationship. Silence acquires motives. A delayed reply becomes evidence. People fall for patterns assembled from profile photos and tiny bursts of attention, then feel betrayed when the living person refuses to follow the script.

Bear’s wish gives his script enforcement powers.

The Willow looks quaint beside a smartphone. Its rustic packaging belongs in a dusty curiosity shop. Yet its promise feels aggressively current. State your preference and receive the result. No uncertainty, waiting or difficult conversation.

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Terms and conditions apply.

Rejection Would Have Saved Everyone

Bear treats rejection as the worst possible outcome because rejection would force him to revise the version of himself built around Nikki. He might discover that his longing has gone unanswered. He might feel foolish and have to move on.

Those consequences sound merciful once the bodies begin piling up.

The film understands embarrassment as a healthy social force. Embarrassment arrives when fantasy meets another person’s reality. It stings because the self suddenly becomes visible from outside. Bear spends the movie fleeing that moment, and every escape carries him deeper into humiliation.

Johnston makes his panic almost endearing before allowing the entitlement underneath to show. Bear cries and scrambles for solutions. He also keeps framing the curse through what it has done to his life. Nikki’s stolen agency sits directly in front of him, yet he longs for the comfortable friendship he destroyed.

His question about why she cannot simply be Nikki cuts especially deep. The answer stands inside the wish. He wanted Nikki without Nikki’s choice.

The Ending Completes the Match

Bear smiles during a dimly lit nighttime scene in Obsession.
Bear’s hopeful smile hides the dangerous wish about to reshape his life in Obsession. Image: Focus Features.

The final exchange of wishes turns Bear and Nikki into a couple in the bleakest way imaginable.

Cursed Nikki uses the remaining Willow to make Bear love her with the same absolute intensity. For a brief moment, the pair appears perfectly aligned. He walks toward her with tenderness. She receives the devotion she was created to crave. Their kiss has the shape of a romantic ending.

Consent has vanished from both sides.

The scene feels strangely mournful because mutual obsession resembles love from a distance. Their faces soften. The music encourages surrender. Strip away the wishes and the moment might belong in a conventional romance.

That resemblance is the final trap.

Apps often describe compatibility as a problem that better data can solve. Match the values, preferences, habits, and desired outcomes. Obsession offers the nightmare endpoint of that promise. Bear and Nikki finally want the exact same thing with equal force. They achieve total emotional compatibility and lose themselves in the process.

Then Bear dies and the real Nikki wakes.

Her return restores uncertainty, pain, and autonomy all at once. Those qualities make human connection difficult. They also make it human.

The One Wish Willow grants Bear the frictionless romance he thought he wanted. Like every proper Monkey’s Paw, it listens carefully. The horror comes from how little it misunderstands.


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